“Nothing can bring you peace but yourself.” ~Ralph Waldo Emerson

You are all that you need.

It’s the simple, honest truth.

You are all that you need to discover your purpose. To align your life with what really matters most. To pursue your biggest dreams — in spite of the terrifying reality of not knowing where you are going, or what you are doing, or where you might end up.

You really are all that you need.

I promise you.

…but maybe you could use a little convincing. A helping hand. An outside perspective. Listening ears. A mentor. Someone you know and trust.

Read on.


Honor Your Evolutions

In January, I decided to dedicate my year in 2012 to three devout intentions: Captivate, Cultivate, Shine.

In the following months, I pushed myself to embody those intentions: I moved to New York City, relaunched my website, marked my three-year “I Quit” anniversary, debuted new 1-on-1 offerings, released fresh public speaking topics, brought on new clients, and have had authentic conversations with hundreds people from around the globe.

(Yeah, it’s been a wild year already!)

And as I wrote to my subscribers last Friday morning (while running late to a friend’s wedding in New Jersey), all of these developments have been a testament to a pretty simple reminder:

“Honor your evolutions.”

We are in a constant state of growth and change. Ebbs and flows. Nothing is static, stagnant or still. And, honoring that constant state of change and growth means incorporating such an important reminder into your day-to-day life, as well as with your big picture goals and dreams:

Be detached from expectations and assumptions. Constantly innovate. Leave your ego behind. Forge on, with a bit of reckless abandon.

What results can you expect?

Accelerated growth and learning — what, in turn, accelerates the growth and learning of those around you. Fluidity, openness. Sharpened direction. Stronger intuition and smarter problem-solving. Or, in other words…



Lead Without Followers Life-Coaching

Lead Without Followers Life-Coaching is an evolution, itself, of two old coaching offerings that have been melted into one (simplification) and expanded to be a deeper, more valuable 1-on-1 coaching offering:

Four 1-hour coaching session package, to help your discovery of a stronger sense of purpose in your life — and how to find, understand and start walking on your path.

Through Lead Without Followers Life-Coaching, you’ll learn how to consciously embrace — and spark — your own evolutions on your path of life:

  • How to understand what purpose really is,
  • How to walk the path you’re on — or find the one you’re really dying to discover.
  • How to make strong, confidence decisions in accordance with your values

By discovering purpose and your path, you learn how to assert your conscious mind and your loving heart over your life’s circumstances, indecision and confusion about “what you ought to do” — through a raw-and-real, authentically human and totally grounded philosophy:

Understanding that you are as a natural catalyst for love, a true giver by your nature, and how lasting happiness is birthed from within — and is made real when shared amongst others around you.

By leading without followers in your everyday life, you can begin to:

  • Transcend detrimental cycles of negative thinking,
  • Identify your core personal values and harness them as life-gauges
  • Overcome excuse-making (even when you don’t realize you’re making excuses)
  • Transform that feeling of aimlessness into driven, honed, determined purpose
  • Find true direction on your path and a clearer understanding of your unique calling

And for seven first-come, first-served Lead Without Followers Life-Coaching clients, this summer, we will work together one-on-one to achieve all of that — and so much more.


Join Me for “A Summer Like No Other”

Three years ago, I knew — well, I didn’t know. But I trusted deep down — that with grit, a lot of hard work, a touch of defiance and all the heart that I could possibly muster, I could forge a path for myself — without suffering for decades to, maybe one day, reach that point where I was “justified” to help people and live a flourishing life that I dreamed of.

Life’s too short for that.

Life is too much of a gift!

You are meant to love this gift.

And you do not need social or material qualifications to justify your deepest, most honest and soulful calling to give more, to be more, and to live your life with passion and purpose. That’s what it means to lead without followers: knowing that you already have every ability, tool and capacity within you to give, to inspire and to help people.

No one can ever take that away from you.

And from Lead Without Followers Life-Coaching, suddenly entire worlds of possibility, positivity and opportunity are opened.

You lose nothing; and you gain love, confidence, strength and peace.

As a quiet giver, a dedicated student of life, a leader without followers in your world, you become fueled with a rewarding and clear sense of purpose (what you’re meant to do), a palpable taste of fulfillment for living, and a long-lasting source of untouchable happiness that is rooted, and always remains, within you.

Yes, when we connect for Lead Without Followers Life-Coaching, you will begin to build a strong foundational core: deep-reaching roots of compassion, selflessness, goodness and positivity.

This summer, I want to share that with you: one-on-one.

Spaces, however, are limited (with reason, not a hard sell).

I’m offering this to only 7 clients on a first-come, first-served basis — so that I can completely invest myself into your story, your concerns, your goals and how to achieve them right now.

And, hey.

This is going to be a whole lot of fun.

You’ll learn, you’ll achieve, you’ll transform. We will laugh, share, bond, I’ll give you the hook up with new people to meet, show you where you’re going, and, we’ll revolutionize the “dog days of summer” with a heart-felt and action-packed action-plan to evolve your thoughts, find purpose, and pursue the path that you dream of walking.

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Claim Your Spot »

As always, if you have any questions, just drop me a line! I’m way easily accessible — and I love to meet you and hear what your thoughts are. So, go ahead, get in touch any time:

  • Call 401/384-0887
  • Email dave@daveursillo.com
  • Send carrier pigeons to the corner of 1st Street and East Houston Street, New York City

I’d really love to work with you this summer. Whaddya say? Let’s do it!

P.S. — Remember, I can only accept 7 new coaching clients for this summer. I hope you’ll be one of them!

P.P.S — Want a test-run? Every new subscriber is entitled to a free 30-minute Skype or phone call with me, 1-on-1. Subscribe below and you can set up a time for us to chat on my shared calendar :)

Flickr photo by RichardLowkes